Do You know Why 95% of Wedlocks turns into deadlocks within 6 months of their marriages?

Marriages since time immemorial are considered as a "sacred oneness witnessed by fire itself" such unity was a medium for living meaningful life, for attaining the ultimate goal of this precious human life and for building strong community by imparting ultimate knowledge of human life to the next generations.

Considering the sacred purpose of marriages and the human life, the parents and other family members of the bride and groom used to find suitable matches for their children keeping in mind two primary parameters (1) Cultural similarity and (2) Daily Routine or Lifestyle Similarity besides the other secondary parameters i.e. (1) Social Status (2) Financial Status. Out of which generally primary parameters used to be non-negotiable and secondary parameters used to optional.

On the Contrary, in modern social or family set up, different members of a family has different tastes about food, lifestyles and beliefs about lives. As a human being, the author is not questioning the freedom of expression and right to live life at its fullest, but only highlighting a thin-line or a missing link between happy matrimony and the primary parameters for finding suitable matches for themselves or their children.

Living in live-in relationships in modern day by youth is one of such modified way of discovering the primary parameters (1) Cultural similarity and (2) Daily Routine or Lifestyle about their life partner. As per the author although live-in relationship is prevalent in modern society or in metro or global cities, but is not accepted at large in the context of Indian Culture. By way of highlighting the culture of live-in relationship, author is consciously communicating that the above-mentioned primary parameters are the fundamentals for a successful matrimony.

Fact remains is, in modern times, in the age of globalisation and information technology marriages have become more of a deal loosing its ultimate significance than of a system for attaining eternal growth by uniting together because of the nuclear families living without elders who used to understand the real links between the primary parameters and the successful marriages. As a fact in modern times, the core reason for breaking maximum marriages is adjustment issues of brides in the families which arises only because the either the boy or girl or their parents did not have access to know the primary parameters about each other or their families which is also quiet difficult to know in the current social set up i.e. different cultures, different region or religion or different lifestyles, by a layman. For this you need an expert Pre-Marriage Enquirer who can help you in pre marriage due diligence not only of the primary parameters (1) Cultural similarity and (2) Daily Routine or Lifestyle about their life partner but also of the Secondary parameters i.e. (1) Social Status (2) Financial Status.

After knowing the primary parameters, now you can apply your personal intelligence in either dropping or realigning the bride or groom with each other and their respective families before hand.

Remember Your marriage is based on reliance. If you are conscious before hand you can save your own life or the life of your near and dear. Pre-Marriage Enquiry is something which is essential for almost all the youngsters who are going to Tie-a-Knot.

Wish You Happy Marriage.

Thanks & Regards

Brijesh Kr Gupta

Pre-Marriage Attorney | Pre-Marriage Due Diligence Expert | Post Marriage Counsellor |

Advocate-On-Record Supreme Court of India|

Email: brijeshkgupta2016@gmail.com